What I read and learned in 2019
A friend of mine recently asked me what books, shows, people, practices, or ideas shaped my 2019. Here’s what I said back…
Perhaps the most obvious of life hacks has rocked my year- GET A LIBRARY CARD! Modern libraries systems are truly amazing, particularly their digital offerings like Libby. I now have access to hundreds of thousands of ebooks and audiobooks, and save $ by buying less books and cutting my Audible subscription. Seriously, everyone should do this.
The most frequent phase I heard this year was DO BETTER WORK. I was lucky enough to work with Max Yoder on his brief, but meaningful book about building a great team. It’s a quick read, and infinitely worth it.
Speaking of books, WHITE FRAGILITY forced me to take a deep look at the biases I walk around with every day. NEVER SPLIT THE DIFFERENCE taught me extremely helpful tips on communicating and negotiating more effectively-straight from an FBI hostage negotiator. CHURCHILL: WALKING WITH DESTINY was 1000+ pages, but introduced me to the most impressive world leader and orator I’ve learned about yet, Winston Churchill. NO HARD FEELINGS accessibly walked through embracing emotions at work (with really fun illustrations), while ANTIFRAGILE encouraged me to lean into ambiguity and stressors (that’s how we grow). Every marketer should flip through THIS WON’T SCALE, and anyone looking for a quick escape into a mystery should grab THE SILENT PATIENT.
As I’ve settled into being an Indiana resident, I’ve had the opportunity to meet and learn more about MITCH DANIELS. He inspires me to invest in people, never settle for status quo, and make Indiana a better state. AARON SORKIN’S writing is still the best on television, so do yourself a favor and watch THE WEST WING this year. I promise it’ll leave you more inspired than 2020 election coverage. I also read about the legacy of BILL CAMPBELL, a coach for many of Silicon Valley’s most notable leaders. I’m increasingly convinced that business and non-profit teams have lots to learn about coaching, teamwork, and practice from the world of sports.
At the beginning of this year, I added a sticky note reminder to my desk. It says, LISTEN MORE. I’m increasingly convinced that listening-really listening-to people is the linchpin for better work, relationships, and progress.
I hope you learn, read, and listen more in 2020. Oh, and don’t forget the library card.